Above all, it came at the right time.

What Is ‘It’s Complicated’ About?

It’s Complicatedfollows Jane(Streep), an affluent divorcee in the throes of empty-nesting.

Meryl Streep as Jane Adler in It’s Complicated

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Jane, now all by her lonesome, is left to figure out what’s next.

Well, thankfully, Jane has a project.

The architect in charge is Adam (Martin), and naturally, they hit it off.

Meryl Streep and Steve Martin in It’s Complicated

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A cutesy romance is budding, but there’s one major hiccup.

Jane begins having an affair.

I don’t care what anyone says, it was irresistible.

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By now, I’m a devout, dues-paid member ofthe Meryl Streep fan club.

From here on out, I will see anything she’s in even a rom-com.

But where’s Freddy Krueger?

It’s Complicated (2009)

Leading up to this, we hadMilk,Slumdog Millionaire,The Reader, and evenWALL-E.

I was amid meeting and reconciling stepparents, split holidays, and siblings spread across state lines.

It’s a sort of unwritten contract we enter into in the real world.

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All this, of course, plays out for Jane.

Suddenly and simultaneously, I’m seeing my parents in a different light.

They aren’t just my mother and father; they’re both their own person.

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The visible relief on Jane’s face in response was enough to melt me.

Then, there was the bombshell.

They angrily leave and sulk for a while until their mom comes to them with an apologetic explanation.

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However, that wasn’t the bombshell.

Children are entitled to some selfishness, but I didn’t want to feel that way anymore.

The shocking lessonIt’s Complicatedoffered was that it’s not really all that complicated.

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People want to love, and they want to be wanted, andthat doesn’t change with age.

And maybe laugh at the chaos, too.