ForNick TramontinandSandy Gallagher, the issue starts with their age.

Not all couples are ready for the intensity of the ultimatum and leave.

Because of someone leaving the show, Nick ends up paired withMariah Zernik.

Nick and Sandy from Netflix’s The Ultimatum Season 3.

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On the other hand, Sandy paired up withJ.R.

Nick Is Out of Control

Nick Tramontin issued the ultimatum to Sandy, wanting to settle down.

Nick immediately melts down.

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Tramontin goes to the apartment where J.R. and Sandy are staying in an attempt to talk to Gallagher.

However, J.R. steps in front of Sandy and refuses to let Nick get a word in.

Red flags are all around.

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J.R. becomes Nick’s overwhelming presence after this event, making him insecure.

The apartment is not the only time that Nick tries to talk to Sandy.

Nick runs into Sandy at Starbucks, but not by accident.

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When J.R. skirts around the question, Nick spirals further.

He is not in any state to decide on a tattoo and gets the wrong tattoo.

The kicker andreally concerningpart of the tattoo is that J.R. has the exact words tattooed in a different font.

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Sandy Has Secrets of Her Own

Despite Nick’s concerning behavior,Sandy is not blameless.

Sandy is still young and wants to have fun, which is part of the issue in the relationship.

The pair have communication and boundary issues; that is clear, butSandy is sometimes pushing the limits.

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Nick’s stalkerish behavior is concerning, but he keeps alleging that Sandy is feeding him information.

Sandy also takes full advantage of the trial marriage to J.R.

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Sandy does not want to tell Nick about the kisses and avoids mentioning them.

Mariah and Sandy discuss Nick’s meltdown during the girls' night out.

Mariah mentions that Nick puts his hurt emotions into his art, and Sandy shows contempt.

The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On

Sandy points out that Nick does not treat her well outside the show nor trusts the other.

Although Nick is the one who presented the ultimatum,Sandy has gained more fromthis experimentthan Nick.

Withdisgust and concerning behavior, Nick and Sandy should not leaveThe Ultimatumengaged.

Nick and Sandy are uncomfortable with each other’s flaws, and J.R. comes between them.

Nick and Sandy are in different places, and being onThe Ultimatumis irreparably damaging their relationship.

The Ultimatumis available to stream on Netflix.

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